Why I choose Common Sense to be my real goal, not self-feeling.
Because the essence of self-feeling caring means ego style.
The ego likes an animal, it will make us live in a short view. That will make me cannot win in a long term.
For example, we like to please others. Because we fear being attacked if they don’t satisfy. But the essential reason is we want to protect our ego. Because the reference frame for judging the world is only by other people’s comments.
So, the meaning is our ego makes us fail.
But there is an easy solution to change it in total.
That is changing the purpose from protecting ego to winning the creation.
So, becoming a creator(e.g. win to finish project) rather than a protector(e.g. protecting self-feeling).
